Mental Disorders

[laney]

My new boyfriend is into s/m I am interested but somewhat afraid - how do you establish boundries, are there red flags I should look for?

[devilman96]

When did S&M become a disorder?

S&M is a perfectly healthy approach to sexuality... Unless your a repressed atypical stereotype which will lead you to your own disorder later in life.

Boundaries are something a couple work out... Ether your into it or you are not but it is not something to be feared by ether side of the fence. However it IS something that should be clearly discussed, worked over, and overly talked about between a couple before proceeding to far down the path.

There are a lot of introductory books and movies on the subject... most are written by women... I suggest going and doing some research but there is nothing mental or disorderly about S&M.