Paranoid personality disorder



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Definition

People with paranoid personality disorder (PPD) have long-term, widespread and unwarranted suspicions that other people are hostile, threatening or demeaning. These beliefs are steadfastly maintained in the absence of any real supporting evidence. The disorder, whose name comes from the Greek word for "madness," is one of ten personality disorders described in the 2000 edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders , (the fourth edition, text revision or DSM-IVTR ), the standard guidebook used by mental health professionals to diagnose mental disorders.

Despite the pervasive suspicions they have of others, patients with PPD are not delusional (except in rare, brief instances brought on by stress ). Most of the time, they are in touch with reality, except for their misinterpretation of others' motives and intentions. PPD patients are not psychotic but their conviction that others are trying to "get them" or humiliate them in some way often leads to hostility and social isolation.

Description

People with PPD do not trust other people. In fact, the central characteristic of people with PPD is a high degree of mistrustfulness and suspicion when interacting with others. Even friendly gestures are often interpreted as being manipulative or malevolent. Whether the patterns of distrust and suspicion begin in childhood or in early adulthood, they quickly come to dominate the lives of those suffering from PPD. Such people are unable or afraid to form close relationships with others.

They suspect strangers, and even people they know, of planning to harm or exploit them when there is no good evidence to support this belief. As a result of their constant concern about the lack of trustworthiness of others, patients with this disorder often have few intimate friends or close human contacts. They do not fit in and they do not make good "team players." Interactions with others are characterized by wariness and not infrequently by hostility. If they marry or become otherwise attached to someone, the relationship is often characterized by pathological jealousy and attempts to control their partner. They often assume their sexual partner is "cheating" on them.

People suffering from PPD are very difficult to deal with. They never seem to let down their defenses. They are always looking for and finding evidence that others are against them. Their fear, and the threats they perceive in the innocent statements and actions of others, often contributes to frequent complaining or unfriendly withdrawal or aloofness. They can be confrontational, aggressive and disputatious. It is not unusual for them to sue people they feel have wronged them. In addition, patients with this disorder are known for their tendency to become violent.

Despite all the unpleasant aspects of a paranoid lifestyle, however, it is still not sufficient to drive many people with PPD to seek therapy. They do not usually walk into a therapist's office on their own. They distrust mental health care providers just as they distrust nearly everyone else. If a life crisis, a family member or the judicial system succeeds in getting a patient with PPD to seek help, therapy is often a challenge. Individual counseling seems to work best but it requires a great deal of patience and skill on the part of the therapist. It is not unusual for patients to leave therapy when they perceive some malicious intent on the therapist's part. If the patient can be persuaded to cooperate— something that is not easy to achieve— low-dose medications are recommended for treating such specific problems as anxiety, but only for limited periods of time.

If a mental health care provider is able to gain the trust of a patient with PPD, it may be possible to help the patient deal with the threats that they perceive. The disorder, however, usually lasts a lifetime.

Causes and symptoms

Causes

No one knows what causes paranoid personality disorder, although there are hints that familial factors may influence the development of the disorder in some cases. There seem to be more cases of PPD in families that have one or more members who suffer from such psychotic disorders as schizophrenia or delusional disorder .

Other possible interpersonal causes have been proposed. For example, some therapists believe that the behavior that characterizes PPD might be learned. They suggest that such behavior might be traced back to childhood experiences. According to this view, children who are exposed to adult anger and rage with no way to predict the outbursts and no way to escape or control them develop paranoid ways of thinking in an effort to cope with the stress. PPD would emerge when this type of thinking becomes part of the individual's personality as adulthood approaches.

Studies of identical (or monozygotic) and fraternal (or dizygotic) twins suggest that genetic factors may also play an important role in causing the disorder. Twin studies indicate that genes contribute to the development of childhood personality disorders, including PPD. Furthermore, estimates of the degree of genetic contribution to the development of childhood personality disorders are similar to estimates of the genetic contribution to adult versions of the disorders.

Symptoms

A core symptom of PPD is a generalized distrust of other people. Comments and actions that healthy people would not notice come across as full of insults and threats to someone with the disorder. Yet, generally, patients with PPD remain in touch with reality; they don't have any of the hallucinations or delusions seen in patients with psychoses. Nevertheless, their suspicions that others are intent on harming or exploiting them are so pervasive and intense that people with PPD often become very isolated. They avoid normal social interactions. And because they feel so insecure in what is a very threatening world for them, patients with PPD are capable of becoming violent. Innocuous comments, harmless jokes and other day-to-day communications are often perceived as insults.

Paranoid suspicions carry over into all realms of life. Those burdened with PPD are frequently convinced that their sexual partners are unfaithful. They may misinterpret compliments offered by employers or coworkers as hidden criticisms or attempts to get them to work harder. Complimenting a person with PPD on their clothing or car, for example, could easily be taken as an attack on their materialism or selfishness.

Because they persistently question the motivations and trustworthiness of others, patients with PPD are not inclined to share intimacies. They fear such information might be used against them. As a result, they become hostile and unfriendly, argumentative or aloof. Their unpleasantness often draws negative responses from those around them. These rebuffs become "proof" in the patient's mind that others are, indeed, hostile to them. They have little insight into the effects of their attitude and behavior on their generally unsuccessful interactions with others. Asked if they might be responsible for negative interactions that fill their lives, people with PPD are likely to place all the blame on others.

A brief summary of the typical symptoms of PPD includes:

  • suspiciousness and distrust of others
  • questioning hidden motives in others
  • feelings of certainty, without justification or proof, that others are intent on harming or exploiting them
  • social isolation
  • aggressiveness and hostility
  • little or no sense of humor

Demographics

As of 2002, it has not been possible to determine the number of people with PPD with any accuracy. This lack of data might be expected for a disorder that is characterized by extreme suspiciousness. Such patients in many cases avoid voluntary contact with such people as mental health workers who have a certain amount of power over them. There are, nonetheless, some estimates of the prevalence of PPD. According to the DSM-IV-TR , between 0.5% and 2.5% of the general population of the United States may have PPD, while 2%–10% of outpatients receiving psychiatric care may be affected. A significant percentage of institutionalized psychiatric patients, between 10% and 30%, might have symptoms that qualify for a diagnosis of PPD. Finally, the disorder appears to be more common in men than in women.

There are indications in the scientific literature that relatives of patients with chronic schizophrenia may have a greater chance of developing PPD than people in the general population. Also, the incidence of the disorder may be higher among relatives of patients suffering from another psychotic disorder known as delusional disorder of the persecutory type.

Diagnosis

There are no laboratory tests or imaging studies as of 2002 that can be used to confirm a diagnosis of PPD. The diagnosis is usually made on the basis of the doctor's interview with the patient, although the doctor may also give the patient a diagnostic questionnaire. In addition, input from people who know the patient may be requested.

Diagnostic criteria

Mental health care providers look for at least five distinguishing symptoms in patients who they think might suffer from PPD. The first is a pattern of suspiciousness about, and distrust of, other people when there is no good reason for either. This pattern should be present from at least the time of the patient's early adulthood.

In addition to this symptom that is required in order to make the PPD diagnosis, the patient should have at least four of the following seven symptoms as listed in the DSM-IV-TR :

  • The unfounded suspicion that people want to deceive, exploit or harm the patient.
  • The pervasive belief that others are not worthy of trust or that they are not inclined to or capable of offering loyalty.
  • A fear that others will use information against the patient with the intention of harming him or her. This fear is demonstrated by a reluctance to share even harmless personal information with others.
  • The interpretation of others' innocent remarks as insulting or demeaning; or the interpretation of neutral events as presenting or conveying a threat.
  • A strong tendency not to forgive real or imagined slights and insults. People with PPD nurture grudges for a long time.
  • An angry and aggressive response in reply to imagined attacks by others. The counterattack for a perceived insult is often rapid.
  • Suspicions, in the absence of any real evidence, that a spouse or sexual partner is not sexually faithful, resulting in such repeated questions as "Where have you been?" "Whom did you see?" etc., and other types of jealous behavior.

Differential diagnosis

Psychiatrists and clinical psychologists should be careful not to confuse PPD with other mental disorders or behaviors that have some symptoms in common with the paranoid personality. For example, it is important to make sure that the patient is not a long-term user of amphetamine or cocaine. Chronic abuse of these stimulants can produce paranoid behavior. Also, some prescription medications might produce paranoia as a side effect; so it is important to find out what drugs, if any, the patient is taking.

There are other conditions that, if present, would mean a patient with paranoid traits does not have PPD. For example, if the patient has symptoms of schizophrenia, hallucinations or a formal thought disorder, a diagnosis of PPD can't be made. The same is true of delusions, which are not a feature of PPD.

Also, the suspiciousness and other characteristic features of PPD must have been present in the patient for a long time, at least since early adulthood. If the symptoms appeared more recently than that, a person can't be given a diagnosis of this disorder.

There are at least a dozen disorders or other mental health conditions listed in the DSM-IV-TR that could be confused with PPD after a superficial interview because they share similar or identical symptoms with PPD. It is important, therefore, to eliminate the following entities before settling on a diagnosis of PPD: paranoid schizophrenia; schizotypal personality disorder ; schizoid personality disorder ; persecutory delusional disorder; mood disorder with psychotic features; symptoms and/or personality changes produced by disease, medical conditions, medication or drugs of abuse; paranoia linked to the development of physical handicaps; and borderline, histrionic, avoidant, antisocial or narcissistic personality disorders.

In some individuals, symptoms of PPD may precede the development of schizophrenia. Should a patient who as been correctly diagnosed with PPD later develop schizophrenia, the DSM-IV-TR suggests that the diagnosis on the patient's medical record be changed from "Paranoid Personality Disorder" to "Paranoid Personality Disorder (Premorbid)."

Treatments

Because they are suspicious and untrusting, patients with PPD are not likely to seek therapy on their own. A particularly disturbing development or life crisis may prompt them to get help. More often, however, the legal system or the patient's relatives order or encourage him or her to seek professional treatment. But even after a patient finally agrees or is forced to seek treatment, the nature of the disorder poses very serious challenges to therapists.

Psychotherapy

The primary approach to treatment for such personality disorders as PPD is psychotherapy . The problem is that patients with PPD do not readily offer therapists the trust that is needed for successful treatment. As a result, it has been difficult to gather data that would indicate what kind of psychotherapy would work best. Therapists face the challenge of developing rapport with someone who is, by the nature of his personality disorder, distrustful and suspicious; someone who often sees malicious intent in the innocuous actions and statements of others. The patient may actively resist or refuse to cooperate with others who are trying to help.

Mental health workers treating patients with PPD must guard against any show of hostility on their part in response to hostility from the patient, which is a common occurrence in people with this disorder. Instead, clinicians are advised to develop trust by persistently demonstrating a nonjudgmental attitude and a professional desire to assist the patient.

It is usually up to the therapist alone to overcome a patient's resistance. Group therapy that includes family members or other psychiatric patients, not surprisingly, isn't useful in the treatment of PPD due to the mistrust people with PPD feel towards others. This characteristic also explains why there are no significant self-help groups dedicated to recovery from this disorder. It has been suggested, however, that some people with PPD might join cults or extremist groups whose members might share their suspicions.

To gain the trust of PPD patients, therapists must be careful to hide as little as possible from their patients. This transparency should include note taking; details of administrative tasks concerning the patient; correspondence; and medications. Any indication of what the patient would consider "deception" or covert operation can, and often does, lead the patient to drop out of treatment. Patients with paranoid tendencies often don't have a well-developed sense of humor; those who must interact with people with PPD probably should not make jokes in their presence. Attempts at humor may seem like ridicule to people who feel so easily threatened.

With some patients, the most attainable goal may be to help them to learn to analyze their problems in dealing with other people. This approach amounts to supportive therapy and is preferable to psychotherapeutic approaches that attempt to analyze the patient's motivations and possible sources of paranoid traits. Asking about a patient's past can undermine the treatment of PPD patients. Concentrating on the specific issues that are troubling the patient with PPD is usually the wisest course.

With time and a skilled therapist, the patient with PPD who remains in therapy may develop a measure of trust. But as the patient reveals more of his paranoid thoughts, the clinician will continue to face the difficult task of balancing the need for objectivity about the paranoid ideas and the maintenance of a good rapport with the patient. The therapist thus walks a tightrope with this type of patient. If the therapist is not straightforward enough, the patient may feel deceived. If the therapist challenges paranoid thoughts too directly, the patient will be threatened and probably drop out of treatment.

Medications

While individual supportive psychotherapy is the treatment of choice for PPD, medications are sometimes used on a limited basis to treat related symptoms. If, for example, the patient is very anxious, anti-anxiety drugs may be prescribed. In addition, during periods of extreme agitation and high stress that produce delusional states, the patient may be given low doses of antipsychotic medications.

Some clinicians have suggested that low doses of neuroleptics should be used in this group of patients; however, medications are not normally part of long-term treatment for PPD. One reason is that no medication has been proven to relieve effectively the long-term symptoms of the disorder, although the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors such as fluoxetine (Prozac) have been reported to make patients less angry, irritable and suspicious. Antidepressants may even make symptoms worse. A second reason is that people with PPD are suspicious of medications. They fear that others might try to control them through the use of drugs. It can therefore be very difficult to persuade them to take medications unless the potential for relief from another threat, such as extreme anxiety, makes the medications seem relatively appealing. The best use of medication may be for specific complaints, when the patient trusts the therapist enough to ask for relief from particular symptoms.

Prognosis

Paranoid personality disorder is often a chronic, lifelong condition; the long-term prognosis is usually not encouraging. Feelings of paranoia, however, can be controlled to a degree with successful therapy. Unfortunately, many patients suffer the major symptoms of the disorder throughout their lives.

Prevention

With little or no understanding of the cause of PPD, it is not possible to prevent the disorder.

See also Paranoia

Resources

BOOKS

Allen, Thomas E., Mayer C. Liebman, Lee Crandall Park, and William C. Wimmer. A Primer on Mental Disorders: A Guide for Educators, Families, and Students. Lantham, MD: Scarecrow Press, 2001.

American Psychiatric Association. Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. 4th edition, text revised. Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Association,2000.

Beers, Mark H., and Robert Berkow, eds. "Personality disorders." In The Merck Manual of Diagnosis and Therapy. 17th edition. Whitehouse Station, NJ: Merck Research Laboratories, 1999.

Frances, Allen. Your Mental Health: A Layman's Guide to the Psychiatrist's Bible. New York, NY: Scribner, 1999.

Kernberg, Paulina F., Alan S. Weiner and Karen K. Bardenstein. Personality Disorders in Children and Adolescents. 1st edition. New York, NY: Basic Books,2000.

PERIODICALS

Coolidge, F. L., L. L. Thede and K. L. Jang. "Heritability of personality disorders in childhood: A preliminary investigation." Journal of Personality Disorders 15, no. 1 (Feb.2001): 33-40.

Webb, C. T. and D. F. Levinson. "Schizotypal and paranoid personality disorder in the relatives of patients with schizophrenia and affective disorders: A review." Schizophrenia Research 11, no. 1 (Dec. 1993): 81-92.

ORGANIZATIONS

American Psychiatric Association. 1400 K Street NW, Washington D.C. 20005. <http://www.psych.org> .

International Society for the Study of Personality Disorders. 115 Mill Street, Belmont, MA 02478. <http://www.isspd.com/> .

National Mental Health Association. 1021 Prince Street, Alexandria, Virginia 22314-2971. <http://www.nmha.org/> .

OTHER

Beers, Mark H., and Robert Berkow, eds. The Merck Manual of Diagnosis and Therapy. 1995-2002. (cited March 12,2002). < http://www.merck.com/pubs/mmanual/section15/chapter191/191a.htm> .

Ekleberry, Sharon, C., Dual Diagnosis and the Paranoid Personality Disorder. The Dual Diagnosis Pages. 25 March 2000. (cited 19 March 2002). <http://www.toad.net/~arcturus/dd/paranoid.htm> .

Grohol, John M. "Paranoid Personality Disorder." Psych Central. 1 March 2002. (cited 16 March 2002). <http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx37t.htm> .

Dean A. Haycock, Ph.D.



User Contributions:

Madhur
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Mar 9, 2009 @ 10:22 pm
Thank you so much for this information. This is exactly what my boyfriend does. I used to be hurt at first when he gave me his silent treatments, now it has come more towards blaming me and accusing me of cheating him. He sees little things that that happened months or years ago and are hardly worth remembering as major issues and wants answers for them. I had calloused myself against it, but now I really want to help him. I'll look at him in a different way from here on - Thank you so very much. He is a very secretive and an intelligent man. Hope he agrees for therapy.
John
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Mar 10, 2009 @ 7:07 am
Very well written article. It pretty much describes me perfectly except I do have a sense of humor and insight into my condition. My main problem is I'm always very uncomfortable with people looking at me. It is a serious condition that can lead to pure rage and a very violent outcome. The mental pounding is relentless and can render you damn near agoraphobic. I'm a goddamn genious, I just can't beat it.
curt
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Mar 14, 2009 @ 8:08 am
I read the first guys comment and I had to look at the intitials at the end cause I thought that I had wrote it myself.
Yeah, I agree this is a very good article. Just the same with me, a light went off and I was blown away. Just like it was written for me. It is a painful, painful experience. Especially when she was the greatest person in the world and just the most perfect member of our church. I am telling you, when she is in church and turns her will over to a higher power, she is normal. She fell away, started on drugs and ended up beating the shit out of me and throwing me out. Pretty scary. I was in Australia and had to come home cause it had gotten so bad and I had no clue what it was or why. I eventually myself became very hurt and beat up. I nearly lost myself through the experience. She has never so much as called me since I got back. I have her password to her E-mail and she only checked it once way back six months ago. Just recently she wrote me that I am a liar and that she isn't attracted to me at all, actually turned off by me. ANd that it is over and we will never be together....

Wish everybody luck with this, this has been a night mare,..

ps. her mom is the same way and her mom was sexually abused as a child. Just for info.
santhosh
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Aug 10, 2009 @ 2:02 am
a very informative article. My wife is suffering from PPD for a long time. It is extremely difficult to live with her. She always suspicious with me. In earlier state she is blaming me of illicit relation with other ladies. Now she is blame me of an illegal affair with my child. They were very cunning people as they should find so many reasons for their belief. They will cleverly close all other social contacts b'case they firmly believe every one in the world is trying to harm them. It is a pity condition that the dear n near ones who's life is become extremely miserable to cope with. Any people who is suffering such an isolation and problem with their dear n near who have developed such a disease pl share my experiance.
Tricia Hysell
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Aug 18, 2009 @ 8:20 pm
This information was helpful but I'm curous that if the person is a chronic alchhol drinker and marajuana user how big is the effect that they play in this disorder and where can I find information relating alcohol and marajuana to this condition. It would help if I had proof to convince others of the problem. If you can help me out I would greatly appreciate it.
Thanks Tricia
Ian
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Aug 27, 2009 @ 9:09 am
My wife is just like this. She believes the stickers on cars that pass her car have messages about her life; that people who wish her harm follow her; that I am cheating on her with her worst enemy (she has many enemies); that innocent remarks have hidden meanings; that my humour is cruel (so I make no jokes). She can be so nice at times, but I do not think we will make it together - there are only so many crazy accusations one can take.
David
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Nov 30, 2009 @ 7:19 pm
my partner seems to associate any innocent event such as a text message send / receive disparity is seen as a sign of lying or possible infidelelity. Even when confronted with the irrefutable evidence, ie i show her the mobile detail side by side, its dismissed as We get into serious confrontation over say my whereabouts, and when i actually prove the facts i am told i'm making a mountain out of a molehill! It just seems a lose lose situation, and I'm now resigned just to go along with whatever accusation is made. I'm ok with it at the moment but so worried that this will detriorate over time. Is this PPD where coincidences become conspiracy?
demitria
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Dec 15, 2009 @ 7:07 am
My sister has this disorder and life with her is miserable. She destroys everyone she gets close to, and everyone is out to demean her or make her look stupid, disrespect her, humiliate her. She focuses on social hierarchies as though they determine everyone's actions towards her, no matter how irrelevant, and can take a simple, innocent comment by someone and spin it into the most vile conniving ulterior motive you could ever imagine. It actually feels like she missed her calling as a fiction writer, only the connections are so loose it is maddening, and sad. Some of the other comments don't seem to understand that not only are these people jealous, they are control-freaks in every area, and they spew horrible contrived and elaborate false plots day and night about the people around them. It can be months before she attacks me again, but I know it will come, and in the meantime, being around her is so difficult because she never stops relating all of the imaginary slights everyone else has committed against her. Her marriage is almost over, she has no friends, and she hates her mother, father, and her siblings. The only people who are safe are people she has never met, and she imagines she just hasn't found the right friends and associates yet. Sadly, she never will.
MOM
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Jan 28, 2010 @ 9:21 pm
I think this is what I have! I have spent countless hours trying to figure out me defect! Tell me what you think
Mel
jen
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Jan 29, 2010 @ 9:21 pm
I am convinced my sister has severe PPD. She has self-imploded and her life is spiraling out of control. She constantly is shutting people out of her life, mostly me, however at the moment she is heavily relying on me to be her friend since she has very few friends or people to talk to at the moment.She has reverted to living in the 80's, listening to only 80's music with the exception of "crazy" which she is obsessed with listening to, reconnecting with x-friends from high school on facebook, etc. I am TERRIFIED to suggest she gets help for fear she will shut me out again after barely speaking to me for the past few years. I love her more than anything on this earth-is there ANYTHING that any of you have been able to do to get your loved one help?
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May 2, 2010 @ 9:21 pm
I feel so sad for all the testimonies I just read - knowing that I too am putting my husband through hell with all my accusations. I do okay for months at a time and then all of a sudden I'm convinced he's having an affair. I'll create a whole story in my mind and then I'll war against the fictional story as if my life depends on it.

I've even accused my husband of sexually abusing our son. Ironically I know none of this is happening. But I can't stop the thoughts and I can't stop acting on them.
Unlike other people with this disorder, I do very well socially. I have many wonderful friends and always think the best of them and expect the best of them. I also give them the best I have. Why my paranoia is isolated to my husband only is beyond me.

I appreciate all the comments I've read thus far. I feel very empathetic towards my husband right now, as well as apologetic.
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Jun 13, 2010 @ 2:02 am
This describes me in a way, I'm not always paranoid at times I can be a very relaxed person.. Then again I can be Suspicious, my sense of humor is horrible and I misinterpret a simple hello at times this makes me almost want to cry.. I'm willing to seek help I don't want this to escalate any further.. Please email me..
amina
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Jul 1, 2010 @ 2:02 am
Very well written article. It pretty much describes me perfectly except I do have a sense of humor and insight into my condition. My main problem is I'm always very uncomfortable with people looking at me. It is a serious condition that can lead to pure rage and a very violent outcome. The mental pounding is relentless and can render you damn near agoraphobic. I'm a goddamn genious, I just can't beat it.
Kitty
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Aug 12, 2010 @ 9:21 pm
This is exactly my husband perfectly described! I don't know what to do anymore or how I'm going to cope with it either. I love him dearly, but I can't deal with constant accusations that I'm hiding things from him, I'm cheating on him, and that I'm manipulating him. He usually keeps most of it to himself, mulling it over while he's alone at his boring job, then when he's had a couple of drinks, "Bam" it all just explodes into a session of ranting and accusations and me in tears (the ranting even goes on to himself when he goes outside for a cigarette, I can hear him). I am beside myself with what to do or even how to deal with this anymore. I get so hurt by the constant doubting of my intentions and actions, apparently all I ever do is sit and work out how I can manipulate him and deceive him. It's very hurtful :(
Silance
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Sep 14, 2010 @ 7:19 pm
Wow. This is my mother. I grew up with this behaviour. And up until 25 or so, I saw the world the same way. A suicide attempt landed me in psychiatric care for five months. I was never diagnosed with PPD, but spent the whole time in hospital in therapy for my other problems and I've been okay since.

My mother, sadly, is still behaving the same way. We haven't had any contact in a very long time.
Crazy4u
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Feb 14, 2011 @ 11:23 pm
I've met numerous people in my life. A little fraction of them were showing a terrible personality. They were always thinking negative that made me think bad about them. So, of course, I isolated/detached myself from people that are hard to be with. I keep people that I get along with. I know they need somebody like me.
Charity
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Apr 5, 2011 @ 4:16 pm
This article describes my mother exactly. She has always had issues, but somehow managed to raise 5 children on her own. My dad did come around and help some, but he couldn't be around her for too long. I am the youngest and was the last one to move out of the house. Since I left 10 years ago she has gone down hill drastically. She doesn't think she has a problem and refuses to get help. She just says "we're a family and family's should help each other and pray together". This is hard for me because I'm at my wits end with her. I've prayed and been as supportive as possible. I've let her live with me 2 different times. I love her and want her to be ok, but I am ready to tell her not to come around anymore. I have to kids and I don't want them to hear all the accusations she makes about EVERYONE. I've been told that I'm supposed to go along with her paranoid rants and pretend like I believe her. Is this true? I can't do it anymore. When I don't go along with it or I ask her to quit saying stuff infront of my kids she becomes angry and threatining. What should I do?
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Jun 25, 2011 @ 12:12 pm
People with paranoid personality disorder (PPD) have long-term, widespread and unwarranted suspicions that other people are hostile, threatening or demeaning. These beliefs are steadfastly maintained in the absence of any real supporting evidence. The disorder, whose name comes from the Greek word for "madness," is one of ten personality disorders described in the 2000 edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders , (the fourth edition, text revision or DSM-IVTR ), the standard guidebook used by mental health professionals to diagnose mental disorders.
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Jun 25, 2011 @ 8:20 pm
I WAS WONDERING IF PPD ARE THEY CAPABIE OF HURTING A CHILD,MY SON-IN-LAW KEVIN HAS TOOKEN MY GRANDBABY AWAY FROM SEEING OR VISIT WITH ME AND HE HAS PPD SO HE IS MEAN AND SAYS HURTFUL THINGS TO ME AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS.HE NEVER LEAVES THE HOUSE HE MAKES MY DAUGHTER WORK AND NEVER HAD O JOB.IM AFRAID HE WILL HURT MY GRANDSON I NEVER BEEN APART FROM HIM SINCE HE WAS BORN THATS SIX YEARS,SO PLEASE HELP ME SO I CAN SAVE MY GRANDSON,IM NOT WORRY ABOUT EMILY SHES JUST LIKE HIM (CRAZY).
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Aug 16, 2011 @ 1:13 pm
Hi,

Really this was a very illuminating article. I can empathize with all those people out there as I too went through such an experience personally. In the end I had to flee from him. I really loved him a lot and I still love him, but his constant suspicions, accusations, outbursts and abusive behavior was driving me crazy. I fled from this relationship two months before our marriage. I wish I could have helped him. But in the end I had no choice other than to save myself. He is a wonderful person except for his PPD. But I sensed that this disorder was becoming more and more chronic with each passing day. I hope there is someone out there who will be able to help him.
Paul
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Sep 2, 2011 @ 4:16 pm
Thank you for this information. This explains alot about Byran Gunther.
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Dec 16, 2011 @ 1:01 am
I really bless with you all, i have almost feeling very very confused about my boyfriends, i dont really know what to do with him. I knew him 8 month. I have such a great filling to him and also nice intimacy with him, I love him so much. But the only things i cant stand is PPD. I have no idea what to say what ever it is is so true that exactly they need a loving person are can stand for This. but my boyfriends no trust no one in this planet..

* Can you explain you comment more detail for me and easier to assorbert.. i need that explanation but i dont really sure, maybe can you give me example please.

thankyou so much for this. I hope i can move on without thingking about him. I wish i never meet him :(

I wish they can have better treatment too..

I'm sorry my engglish is not very good writing...
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Apr 25, 2012 @ 12:12 pm
My mother suffers from this disorder as well. For the longest time I thought that maybe it was schizophrenia or bipolar disorder, the was she would treat me, my brother, and my father. She would alienate me, and attack my faith, saying I was a terrible Christian, and I never understood why, until recently. She accused me and my father of having an affair. She wouldn't talk to me, make everyone dinner except for me, she wasn't a mother to me. I am still unsure why it has only come out now, my childhood was a happy one. But since last year, I have been bouncing around, living with my dad's mother, or traveling, so as to avoid the abuse, I'm only 17. Now, I'm living in France, and she isn't talking to my father, and he has finally decided to get a divorce. She accuses him of having affairs with old family friends, or my youth leaders. I can recognize now, away from the situation, that at one point, she was my mother, and at one point she loved me, but the illness has taken the person that I once loved. She is no longer my mother, my mother died when the illness came out. I hold nothing against who she now is, and wish her only the best, but I've done all that I can do, I've loved her all that I can. You all have done the same. You have all done the best. But at one point, the illness takes the person you loved. I'm not reccomending you leave, I'm not reccomending you stay. But you all need to at some point choose what is healthy for you.

Feel free to email me.
Charley
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May 9, 2012 @ 9:09 am
My ex-husband was PPD & he was impossible to live with. He constantly accused me of bogus activity ranging from my allegedly having multiple affairs to my allegedly spying on him.

Just one of those scenarios was (in his mind) that he thought I was electronically monitoring his Internet communications via a peer-to-peer wireless network which HE himself had set up & which I knew nothing about (I actually didn't have the capability or the knowledge to know how it worked.) He also told me the Chinese and the Russians were both remotely trying to access his laptop to enslave it as a spam-bot.

Further, at random times and for no reason, he accused me of trying to poison him via mayonnaise, of having sex with men at our own house & keeping souvenirs of those alleged trysts, of having affairs with the checkout boy, or having affairs with friends of mine from other countries or of being a lesbian and having sex with the local Blockbuster manger who was a woman.

In the early days of our marriage, when his best friend told me he was paranoid, I should have listened. Instead, I stayed thinking I could fix whatever it was that might have been wrong with him. I was wrong. PPD cannot be fixed. No way, no how.

It is difficult if not impossible to live with someone who has these ongoing destructive fantasies. His behavior was verbally abusive, emotionally highly manipulative and psychologically devastatingly damaging to our marriage.

I had no choice but to leave him for my own physical and psychological safety and sanity.
Kiera
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May 13, 2012 @ 12:00 am
My mother has this disorder, while she has not officially been diagnosed because she refuses to speak with therapists, the therapist for the rest of our family quickly recognized the symptoms. Overall, this article is very well written and helpful to those who have been living or ever come across someone who suffers from PPD.

PPD is not only damaging to the patient, but also to their friends and family. My mother is a very smart person who likes to do things for others. However, she is rarely like that, since she has PPD she uses her kindness to guilt and manipulate people. My parents divorced when I was very young, my father left because he could no longer deal with her constant negativity and guilt trips. Yet, he still sticks around and loves my brother and me, yet my mother only continued her ways, she was so paranoid that when my parents separated, and my father was out of the house, she took me into my dads old office and at the age of 11 and showed me pictures of "all the women my father had slept with". Later I found out that none of the things my mother were stressing about had even happened.

Time, seems to be no cure either, she still to this day tells me that I betray her. Since when I was 17, I moved to my father's house because she had become violent and continued to tell me that I was a betrayer since I love and care for my half siblings. This is a very difficult disease to handle!

I am currently a student of psychology and I hope to go into field where I can research these problems in people in order to find solutions. Mental/Personality disorders are very difficult though, they are called "personality" disorders because they have become part of how a person interprets and behaves in the world. The hardest things to ever change are ourselves, we only have our own reasoning, and when our reasoning has become damaging to us, how can we even know if we don't even have a clear lens to see ourselves through?
Sara
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Jun 4, 2012 @ 5:05 am
My sister in law has been diagnosed with PPD 6 months after her marriage . She also have the same symptoms of jealousy,mistrust and people conspiring against her. She also has a miscarage and i guess that trigerred her condition. She is on drugs these days and i dont know whether she will ever get better again. I wish and pray that she gets better but is it possible?
My brother is in tremendous stress due to her behaviour as she leaves house whenever she feels depressive. One thing i have also observed that these people are very selfish and never ever works against their personal interest.

I also want to know if there is any side effects to the pills they take?
Vivian
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Aug 10, 2012 @ 2:14 pm
How to help children of parents who have this disorder? Accusations, temper tantrams, mistrust, jealousy, etc. This has been the behaviour emulated in front of and towards the children. Consequently, they have little confidence, very uncertain in the responses and behavior. I feel helpless. They are my grandchildren and the parent is my daughter. Please send advice and/or suggestions. Thank you.
Chey.
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Aug 13, 2012 @ 4:16 pm
I think I have this disorder. I pretty much am the same as comment #2. The article describes me all the same except the sense of humor thing. I do have a sense of humor. Though sometimes if a friend or associate says a joke I don't understand I become suspicious of it, and what it really meant. I've always been a little suspicious of people, ever since I can remember. I suppose the time when it started to get "worse" I guess, or when I started to feel this way more, was 4th grade. Now I'm in high school and I'm afraid of how this will effect my success in life. Like when I go to college and get a job after I graduate.(Even though that's a couple years away) I just don't know how to control it.
fed up
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Aug 14, 2012 @ 10:22 pm
my older brother has this, but he would deny he does. At night he swears at people in his room, thinking everyone is following or copying him. He mumbles, rants, swears at everyone and everything.He says the most vile things to my parents and even to us his siblings. He has even been violent, his punched my dad and mum loads of times and even hit my little brother. I dont know what to do, whenever you book a drs appointment for him he knows its for this so doesnt go.
And then thinks we are out to get him. he is 26 yrs old and i dont think he will ever leave this house or get married, he doesnt trust anyone and always says stuff like 'oh if i was in charge i would deal with people, or i need a gang to join so i can sort people out'

I literally cant stand him anymore, my parents cant do anything to fix him coz he never goes drs. And they wont kick him out coz they say what will other people think. urghh and me and my little brother are stuck in the middle.
TK
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Sep 5, 2012 @ 9:21 pm
Thank you so much for this article - a very close friend of mine recently ended our relationship in a fit of accusation and manipulation, and reading this article has saved my sanity! It perfectly explains her behavior and reassures me that this is a serious health issue and not that I was a bad friend. I knew she was a troubled/broken person but kept hoping that she would outgrow these problems; I'm glad to know about this condition so I understand it's not a matter of just growing up and out of it.

Being around her, there were some fun times, but it was always with a constant monitoring of her mood to make sure she wasn't mysteriously upset by an innocent comment, glance, outfit, motion, etc. Talk about walking on eggshells - I couldn't even honestly review a book she'd given me because I didn't love it and knew the 2 star review would send her reeling for weeks! Most of our conversation was her complaining about everyone in her life, including the 7 jobs she moved through (that were all the ultimate terrible situation, of course), her family, and her few "best" friends. All interactions she had, even from folks serving her coffee at Peet's, were perceived as condescending, judging and patronizing. And she felt she was always right - could never apologize for anything - and couldn't ever see the situation through a different lens even when kindly prompted.

I am sad she's left my life, and will grieve losing a friend. But within a couple of days already I feel a profound relief to not have to walk on eggshells in every aspect of my life just to be friends with her. Relationships can be a lot of work, but they shouldn't have serious price tags attached to them. For those commenting who have lived through this with a loved one, my sympathies and encouragement to all of you! And for those who think they might have this, kudos to your honesty and best wishes for developing new thinking patterns. There are some great people and experiences in the world if you can let them in!
Tom
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Oct 15, 2012 @ 6:06 am
My wife suffers from PPD and my marriage became an absolute nightmare. After 36 years and 2 children (both adults) I had to call it quits and I left her. Absolute heartbreak - but it is better living without her than living with the constant accusations - she took me to the brink of suicide. But then the divorce started and 1 year later is still going on. Every single fact, figure or event she disputes (we were in business together) and I still cannot see light at the end of the tunnel. God help anybody living with somebody who suffers from PPD.
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Oct 11, 2014 @ 10:22 pm
I want to share my testimony and my happiness with you all in this site, last year my husband left me for another woman in his working place and he abandon me and my 2kids, everything was so hard for me because i love him so much, so i saw the testimonies of PROPHE SULEMAN he has been helping ladies in getting there husband back so i contacted him and he help me to cast a return spell for my husband and in 3 days my husband left the other woman and he come back to me with so much love and caring. i will never forget this help that Prophet suleman gave to me and my children.if you are here you need help to get you lover back you can contact him through this email prophetsuleman@gmail.com, i am proud to be on his testimony page.
MARIS
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Oct 12, 2014 @ 4:04 am
I am based in London, England, i was amazed my husband left home to corner girl, i found out he was not longer interested in anything i do, i contacted Dr Lawrence who cast a spell that made my husband realize his mistake and come back to me at the time and period appointed by Dr.Lawrence i appreciate your Good work keep it up contact him today drlawrencespelltemple@hotmail.com
Jeffrey Dowling
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Oct 12, 2014 @ 6:18 pm
Thanks to MAMA ALEX for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family?

Hello to every one out here, am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me three days ago, My name is Jeffrey Dowling,i live in TEXAS,USA.and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.( thespelllady@gmail.com }, So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website thespelllady@gmail.com ,if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to “bringing your ex back. So thanks to MAMA ALEX for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.{ thespelllady@gmail.com } , Thanks.
brittany
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Oct 14, 2014 @ 12:00 am
i never one day think of having my husband back, because of the world has turned up side down on me, i have tried all i could to get him back nothing is working out of it, i was so down on my health because of this, i cried all day, mourning all day long day and night, because my husband was not with me. on a certain day, when i was reading some articles on a particular website, i found dr gurmukhi contacts and informations, people were advertising his good works and powers on the sites, all people there wrote and say good words about him, some said if you need help in any type of problems that just contact him and you will be free, many say good of his works and how they were free from different kind of problem, situation and worries, so i decided to give dr swami a try, when i emailed and called him, he explained my past experience to me, i beleiveth in him and do according to what he ask from me, in next three days, my husband came back to me, telling me that he is sorry for everything and pain he has put me through, that i should accept him back, i have no other word to say than to give him my heart am so happy today that dr gurmukhi has done it for me again, if you wish to seek for his help too, you can reached him via gurmukhi7000demonsspell@outlook.com
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Sevda Gulea
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Oct 14, 2014 @ 5:05 am
Am Sevda Gulea i want to thank Dr. ODIAGBE AKHIGBE for getting my lover back to me within 48 hours. When my lover left me i was so tired and frustrated till i search the internet for help and i saw so many good talk about Dr. ODIAGBE AKHIGBE of (airehobhuanuagbontemple@yahoo.com) and i decided to give him a try and i contact him and explain my problems to him and he cast a love spell for me which i use to get my husband back. If you want to get your lover back contact Dr. ODIAGBE AKHIGBE via email: (airehobhuanuagbontemple@yahoo.com) Dr. ODIAGBE AKHIGBE the great man that is able to bring back my lost love.
janice wallocks
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Oct 14, 2014 @ 5:05 am
i never one day think of having my husband back, because of the world has turned up side down on me, i have tried all i could to get him back nothing is working out of it, i was so down on my health because of this, i cried all day, mourning all day long day and night, because my husband was not with me. on a certain day, when i was reading some articles on a particular website, i found dr gurmukhi contacts and informations, people were advertising his good works and powers on the sites, all people there wrote and say good words about him, some said if you need help in any type of problems that just contact him and you will be free, many say good of his works and how they were free from different kind of problem, situation and worries, so i decided to give dr swami a try, when i emailed and called him, he explained my past experience to me, i beleiveth in him and do according to what he ask from me, in next three days, my husband came back to me, telling me that he is sorry for everything and pain he has put me through, that i should accept him back, i have no other word to say than to give him my heart am so happy today that dr gurmukhi has done it for me again, if you wish to seek for his help too, you can reached him via gurmukhi7000demonsspell@outlook.com
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angelina
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Oct 14, 2014 @ 6:06 am
I m ANGELINA from RUSSIA,My ex lover now [husband] is back and we are happily married with kids and i m here to gave thanks and appreciation to Dr Gurmukhi the spell caster of gurmukhi7000demonsspell@outlook.com for all the time He stood by me,for all the truth He make me see,for all the happiness He brought into my life,for all the wrongs He make right,for every of my dreams He make come through and for the help i found in Him,i am grateful and thankful unto Him,He was the one that helped me all,He never let me fall,He was the one that saw me through it all,He was .my source of strength when i was weak,He was my voice when i couldn`t speak,He was my eyes when i couldn`t see,He saw the pain wasn`t good for me,He lifted me were i couldn`t reach,i m everything i m today because You helped me,i m so happy my husband is back in my life at last,His email is gurmukhi7000demonsspell@outlook.com,A temple were sorrows are dropped and happiness is gain in return.
Anna James Anderson
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Oct 14, 2014 @ 8:20 pm
Thank you for your article! It touches my heart deeply because I have recently went through something similar case .About 3 years ago my husband left me and 2 of our kids for 3years to another woman. During this years of our separation I was so broken, so I finally went to a friend of mine who directed me to a spell caster Dr. Oduduwa (dr.oduduwasamuelhightemple@gmail.com) who helps me in reunite my family and then i felt peace and whole love again. 3 days After the casting of the love spell, My Ex-husband called me on phone and apologized to me. so I obeyed and we started dating and hanging out as a family with the kids again, Dr. Oduduwa has restored our marriage in a way I have NEVER expected, but I'm truly Thankful!

Contact Dr. Oduduwa today on: dr.oduduwasamuelhightemple@gmail.com
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Anna Anderson Moon
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adams
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Oct 15, 2014 @ 4:16 pm
My name is Adams Bella, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr.Trust of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email.After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever.Dr.Trust you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on (drozigbospellhome@gmail.com) he is the best caster that can help you with your problems.
fatima
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Oct 17, 2014 @ 11:11 am
Can this disorder be diagnosed in young children? My son is 6 years old and is very paranoid. He's always telling me and his dad that we are lying to him, he thinks his classmates are out to get him, always complaining that the kids in class are going to hit him or get him in trouble with the teacher and when I ask him why, did they tell you they want to hit you he says no, so the next question is, then why would they hit you, he says cause I know they do. He is becoming very anxious and asks to stay home from school all the time. I try to talk to him and tell him he is an amazing person and all the kids want to be his friends but he just tells me I'm lying and doesn't want to hear it. I'm beginig to worry.
daniel edith
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Oct 17, 2014 @ 11:11 am
Hello everyone,I am daniel edith by name,I am from iraq,but I reside at manchester,united kingdom,i am here to testify on how dr. Latifat helped me,august 28th 2014,I saw a post on a particular site sharing testimony on how the great spell caster help people in solving their marital problems,relationship problems etc,
Initially,i thought the post is unreal but i later had a second thought and i contacted the spell caster as instructed by the post,I have no option than to try my best because my husband
left me with my two kids for another woman after a minor misunderstanding,my husband and i got married eight years ago and we have be living happily,At a certain time my husband
started behaving strange to me after we had a minor misunderstanding of which i begged for forgiveness,Before I knew what was going on, he left me and go for another woman who works in the same office with him,When i saw the post,I contacted the spell caster on his email and he told me not to worry that my husband will come back to me in two days time once he finish casting the reunion spell on him,he told me to provide the items needed for the spell preparation,I followed his instruction, To my greatest surprise, my husband came back to me begging for a second chance after a maximum of five days and we are living happily together as one family again,I want to use this medium
to let everyone here know that this is real and if you are out there having this same problem please kindly contact dr. Latifat,at first I did not believe him,because I was desperate,I decided to give him a trial,but today I am a living testimony,my brothers and sister he has no harm,all you just have to do is to obey his instruction,this is his via email: latifathealingtemple@gmail.com,he will give solution to all your problem,Wish you all the Best too!
Sorveia Patricia
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Oct 17, 2014 @ 6:18 pm
READ MY STORY …..
Hello to every one out here, am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me three days ago, My name is Sorveia Patricia ,i live in Texas, USA and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring husband, with two kids. A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago, between me and my husband so terrible that he took the case to court for a divorce he said that he never wanted to stay with me again, and that he did not love me anymore So he packed out of the house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get him back by begging him because finacially he was the family backbone, after much begging, but all to no avail and he confirmed it that he has made his decision to be with another woman, and he never wanted to see me again. So on one evening, as i was coming back from work, i met an old friend of mine who asked of my husband so i explained everything to her that happened,so she told me that the only way i can get my husband back, is to visit a spell caster, because it has really worked for her too i never believed in such things and i alway had that feeling that it was hoax,but i had no other choice than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.(ajamugashrine@gmail.com}, So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my husband back in 3 days what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning so surprisingly my husband who have never called me since the past seven {7}months gave me a call to inform me that he was coming back to taklk to me so amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day, with lots of love and joy and he apologized for his mistake and for the pain he caused me and my children, I was resilient at first but changed my mind because that was what I needed. Then from that day our relationship was now stronger than how it was before. So i will advice you out there to kindly reach on them for help whom are emotionally been abuse at www solverking com,if you are in any condition like this or you have any problem related to “Husband who abuse their wives physically or emotionally and to bringing your loss ex back". So thanks to Dr Victor for bringing back my husband and you brought great joy to my family once again.{ajamugashrine@gmail.com}Thanks.
paul
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Oct 17, 2014 @ 6:18 pm
I really never believed in Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster called Dr ADUWAWA via (aduwawaspiritualtemple@yahoo. com).
The woman i wanted to marry left me 3 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down,she was with me for 3years and i really love her so much, she left me for another man with no reasons,when i called her she never picked up my calls and she don't want to see me around her...so,when i told the man what happened.he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other man has done some spells over my wife and that is the reason why she left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring her back.At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try...In less than 45 hours she called me herself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe she can ever come back to me again but now i am happy she's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family..Am posting this because i believe there are many people out there who might need his help here is his contact email: (aduwawaspiritualtemple@yahoo. com)
bless
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Oct 17, 2014 @ 7:19 pm
I and my boy friend as been separated for a long period, I cam across different spell caster and they were all unable to bring my lover back. I was so sad and almost gave up on him when i met a spell man called DR OLOKUM, who helped me get my lover back. Ever since then i have been so happy and couldnt believe it would happen. He also helped me with success spell, I have been living happily with my lover now and will be getting married soon. Here is his contact if you need his help. LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM
Sarah Richardson
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Oct 17, 2014 @ 8:20 pm
My name is Sarah Richardson from Canada,i want to share my wonderful testimony on how i got back my ex-lover of my life back,i one to tell the people in the world there is a real spell caster on line and is powerful and genuine, His name is Dr. Ayo, He helped me recently to reunite my relationship with my Boyfriend who dumped me, When i contacted Dr. Ayo he cast a love spell for me and my Boyfriend who said he doesn't have anything to do with me again called me and started begging me. To anyone who is reading this article and needs any help, Dr. Ayo can also offer any types of help like Reuniting of marriage and relationship, Curing of all types of Diseases, Court Cases, Pregnancy Spell, Spiritual protection and lot's more.thank once again wonderful man for help me to bring my ex lover back to me,thank you,thank you again and again Dr Ayo,
You can contact him Via this email greatayosolutiontemple@gmail.com
Amanda
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Oct 18, 2014 @ 2:02 am
Hello,everyone i am from USA i never ever believed in spell until i meet a man called Dr laco.(lacopowerfulspellcaster@yahoo.com) , who help me cast a spell that bring back my ex-lover who left me for two years before our marriage,His spells works beyond my imaginations and today i am happily married with two kids and me and my [ex-lover] now husband are very happy more than ever before,what more can i say rather than to say thank you Dr laco for been there for me,contact him today and your life will never ever remain the same his email is (lacopowerfulspellcaster@yahoo.com)
Amanda
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Oct 18, 2014 @ 2:02 am
Hello,everyone i am from USA i never ever believed in spell until i meet a man called Dr laco.(lacopowerfulspellcaster@yahoo.com) , who help me cast a spell that bring back my ex-lover who left me for two years before our marriage,His spells works beyond my imaginations and today i am happily married with two kids and me and my [ex-lover] now husband are very happy more than ever before,what more can i say rather than to say thank you Dr laco for been there for me,contact him today and your life will never ever remain the same his email is (lacopowerfulspellcaster@yahoo.com)
Sarah Richardson
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Oct 18, 2014 @ 4:04 am
My name is Sarah Richardson from Canada,i want to share my wonderful testimony on how i got back my ex-lover of my life back,i one to tell the people in the world there is a real spell caster on line and is powerful and genuine, His name is Dr. Ayo, He helped me recently to reunite my relationship with my Boyfriend who dumped me, When i contacted Dr. Ayo he cast a love spell for me and my Boyfriend who said he doesn't have anything to do with me again called me and started begging me. To anyone who is reading this article and needs any help, Dr. Ayo can also offer any types of help like Reuniting of marriage and relationship, Curing of all types of Diseases, Court Cases, Pregnancy Spell, Spiritual protection and lot's more.thank once again wonderful man for help me to bring my ex lover back to me,thank you,thank you again and again Dr Ayo,
You can contact him Via this email greatayosolutiontemple@gmail.com
paul
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Oct 18, 2014 @ 5:05 am
I really never believed in Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster called Dr ADUWAWA via (aduwawaspiritualtemple@yahoo. com).
The woman i wanted to marry left me 3 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down,she was with me for 3years and i really love her so much, she left me for another man with no reasons,when i called her she never picked up my calls and she don't want to see me around her...so,when i told the man what happened.he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other man has done some spells over my wife and that is the reason why she left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring her back.At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try...In less than 45 hours she called me herself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe she can ever come back to me again but now i am happy she's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family..Am posting this because i believe there are many people out there who might need his help here is his contact email: (aduwawaspiritualtemple@yahoo. com)
Melisa
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Oct 18, 2014 @ 7:07 am
My name is Melisa, from USA, my partner and I have been trying for a baby for over two years now, We were going to a fertility clinic for about 5 months before somebody told us to contact this spell caster who is so powerful, We contacted him at this email; (driayaryi2012@hotmail.com) , for him to help us, then we told him our problem, he told us that we will either conceive in February 2014 or March 2014,but after two years of trying we were at a point where we were willing to try anything. And I'm glad we came to Dr Dahiru, Because his pregnancy spell cast put us at ease, and I honestly believe him, and his gods really helped us as well, I am thankful for all he has done. contact him via email: (driayaryi2012@hotmail.com) if you are trying to get a baby or want your lover back. he has powers to do it, he has done mine
Melisa
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Oct 18, 2014 @ 7:07 am
My name is Melisa, from USA, my partner and I have been trying for a baby for over two years now, We were going to a fertility clinic for about 5 months before somebody told us to contact this spell caster who is so powerful, We contacted him at this email; (driayaryi2012@hotmail.com) , for him to help us, then we told him our problem, he told us that we will either conceive in February 2014 or March 2014,but after two years of trying we were at a point where we were willing to try anything. And I'm glad we came to Dr Dahiru, Because his pregnancy spell cast put us at ease, and I honestly believe him, and his gods really helped us as well, I am thankful for all he has done. contact him via email: (driayaryi2012@hotmail.com) if you are trying to get a baby or want your lover back. he has powers to do it, he has done mine
CASSANDRA
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Oct 18, 2014 @ 7:19 pm
I have been married to my husband for the past 4years, just 2months ago he left me for another woman.On my search to get him back I came across this powerful spell caster.I never believed he could help me but as a result of my frustration I decided to give him a try. it only took him three days and my husband came back begging since then i am the only woman he now sees. thank you so much Drlawrencespelltemple@hotmail.com he can save your marriage too
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Oct 18, 2014 @ 7:19 pm
Am Cannon shelly from Usa, i am sharing about my experience and testimony online in search of a spell caster that will restore my marriage and make me live a happy life. I was introduced to a spell caster by my neighbor and i contact him. to my greatest surprise i never though that there was going to be a real spell caster for me but i was amazed when i met a real one in the person of His Majesty,HIGH PRIEST OZIGIDIDON who helped in in bring back my man and making me have a happy marriage and home and also help in restoring back my job and life and sincerely it is to numerous for me to mention, i just can't thank him more that enough for all he has done but i want to sincerely thank him for restoring my hope that there are still real spell casters out there. Indeed he is so real and true to his job. i am glad i met him and i will hold him in high esteem till i leave this earth. Your HIGHNESS i will never let you go you are my foundation.High priest can be gotten on highpriestozigididon@gmail.com. i know when you contact him and he worked for you, you will definitely come back to thank me. high priest is so great and powerful.. i have lost the adjective to classify him.
erianna
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Oct 19, 2014 @ 4:16 pm
After being in relationship with my husband for nine years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back, but all in vain, wanted him back so the love I feel for him, I begged yet I have made ​​promises, but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested I should instead contact a caster that could help me a spell to bring him back, but I'm the guy who never believed in magic, I had no choice but to try I sent the caster, and he said no problem that everything will be fine within three days, my ex back to me within three days, he cast the spell and, surprisingly, in the second day, it was around 16:00. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for what happened, he wanted me to return with him, he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that's how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made a promise that no one I know who has a relationship problem, it would help that person by him or her in reference to the only pitcher actual spells and powerful that it helped me with my problem and it is different from all false there. Anyone may need the help of the wizard, your email is (BESTLOVEDOCTOR@YAHOO.COM} tel. +) You can email him if you need help in your relationship or anything
rhona cole
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Oct 20, 2014 @ 12:00 am
Truthfully, i was tested hiv + positive last 7 months. i keep on managing the drugs i usually purchase from the health care agency to keep me healthy and strenghtful, i tried all i can too make this disease leave me alone, but unfortunately, it keep on eating up my life, this is what i caused myself, for allowing my fiance make sex to me unsecurely without protection, although i never knew he is hiv positive. so last few 4days i came in contact with a lively article on the internet on how this powerful herb healer get her well and healed. so as a patient i knew this will took my life 1 day, and i need to live with other friends and relatives too. so i copied out the dr oyalo balo the traditional healer’s email id: dr.oyalospellhome@hotmail.com and i mailed him immediately, in a little while he mail me back that i was welcome to his temple home wereby all what i seek for are granted. i was please at that time. and i continue with him, he took some few details from me and told me that he shall get back to me as soon as he is through with my work. i was very happy as heard that from him. so yesterday, as i was just coming from my friends house, dr oyalo balo called me to go for checkup in the hospital and see his marvelous work that it is now hiv negative, i was very glad to hear that from him, so i quickly rush down to the nearest hospital to found out, only to hear from my hospital doctor called James lewis that i am now hiv negative. i jump up at him with the test note, he ask me how does it happen and i recide to him all i went through with dr oyalo balo i am now glad, so i am a gentle type of person that need to share this testimonies to everyone who seek for healings, because once you get calm and quiet, so the disease get to finish your life off. so i will advice you to contact him today for your healing at the above details: email dr.oyalospellhome@hotmail.com contact him now to save your life he is so powerful and helpful to all that have this sickness OR +2348169340571
Dr. Igodo
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Oct 20, 2014 @ 1:01 am
Do you need a spell to get your ex-lover back, have you been scammed and you want your money to be refunded back to you, are you in a relationship and you need a a love charm to hold your partner not to ever cheat on you? Do you need a business charm for your business to be flourishing or do you need a charm for general purposes, Contact us now for your problems are over.
Dr. Igodo
jeffery
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Oct 20, 2014 @ 2:02 am
Hello to every one out here, am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me three days ago, My name is Jeffrey Dowling,i live in TEXAS,USA.and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.dr.wiseonespelltemple@gmail.com
}, So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same email: dr.wiseonespelltemple@gmail.com
,if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to dr.wiseone for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.{dr.wiseonespelltemple@gmail.com, Thanks.
joyce
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Oct 20, 2014 @ 3:03 am
Hi, my name is joyce. I have been in great bondage for almost 2 years suffering in the hands of a cheating husband,we were happy and leaving well until he meant his old time girl friend and he started dating her outside our marriage before you knew it he stoped caring and taking care of his own family it was to the extent that he was planning to get married to her and divorce me his own wife, i have cried and reported him to his family but he never listened to any one but to cut my story short i came in search for a real spell caster who could destroy their relationship and make him come back to me and our 2 kids on my search i saw people making testimony on how their marriage where restored by Dr.wiseone i pick his email and i narrated my story to him and he agreed to help me and after performing a spell on the second day both had a quarrel and he beat his girlfriend up and he came home begging for i and my little kids to forgive him that his eyes are clear now that he will never do any thing that will hurt his family again and promise to be a caring father and never cheat again.I am so so happy that i did not loose him to the girl. all appreciation goes to Dr. wiseone for you are a Great spell caster and to whom this may concern if you have a cheating husband or wife or you need your ex lover back again. you can as well email him on (dr.wiseonespelltemple@gmail.com oror you can call him +2349038661612
Emily
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Oct 20, 2014 @ 11:11 am
I want to use this possible means to appreciate this
priestess I hold in sincere gratitude and high esteem for her help and her kindness she has rendered to me. I want to say a Big thank you to high priestess mouremi of ile- ife, indeed you are the world greatest priestess. Without compromising words, high priestess mouremi helped me in getting back my long lost husband who left me with the kids, and also brought back my life to lime light when i thought all was gone. I am a new creature now with the help of her powerful spell. She is one of the most powerful spell caster i have known all my life, She is so true to her words and her words are substantial. Priestess mouremi is a great woman you need to try her you can as well tell her your problem so that she can be of help to you, her content email is this “priestessmouremi@gmail.com” indeed you are a priestess thank you for making my home a happy home again. Remember her email is priestessmouremi@gmail.com
luis francisca
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Oct 20, 2014 @ 5:17 pm
My name is lius Francisca, and I base in U.S.A...My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Jatto, which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Lydia,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Jatto E-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him VIA Email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before Dr Jatto, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try High drjattosplltemple@gmail.com anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his Email drjattosplltemple@gmail.com OR CALL +2349035512062.
Jauna
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Oct 21, 2014 @ 2:02 am
My name is Jauna Den,i live in Texas.i want to share my wonderful testimony on how i got back my ex-lover of my life back, who i sworn to be with until when he left me to another woman for no reason and i try to make things work for both of us yet things where getting worse and i love him so much and there is nothing i could do to get my ex back until i saw a testimony share on the internet talking about a powerful spell caster Dr Ogbu of ogbushrine@gmail.com who brought ex lover back within 2days and i decide to give it a try and to my greatest surprise he also did it for me, i introduce many of my best friends that have a similar problems, and their problem were solve with the great help of Dr Ogbu through email ogbushrine@gmail.com and they got back their ex lovers. i am so happy that my ex is back to me again,and the most surprise,is that our love is stronger by the day, every day is happiness and joy and there is nothing like been with the man you love. I am so happy
Andrew Lisa
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Oct 21, 2014 @ 2:02 am
I am mrs Andrew Lisa from USA, i want to share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my husband george vega, i love him so much we have been married for 5 years now with two kids. when he went for a vacation to france he meant a lady called Maryś, he told me that he is no longer interested in the marriage any more. i was so confuse and seeking for help, i don't know what to do until I met my friend miss kasha and told her about my problem. she told me not to worry about it that she had a similar problem before and introduce me to a man called Dr Ogala love spell who cast a spell on his ex and bring him back to her after 2days. Miss kasha ask me to contact Dr ogala love spell for help. I contacted him to help me bring back my husband and he ask me not to worry about it that the gods of his fore-fathers will fight for me. He told me by two days he will re-unite me and my husband together. After two day my husband called and told me he is coming back to sought out things with me, I was surprise when I saw him and he started crying for forgiveness. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth for what this great spell caster did for me and my husband, you can contact Dr ogala email Ogalalovespell@yahoo.com.He is the best spell caster who is very capable to help you. tel.+2348163395533
alisa
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Oct 21, 2014 @ 3:15 pm
I want to testify of the good work done by a faithful Dr Adodo, a spell caster. in my life I never thought there is such thing as love spell intercession. my problem started nine months back when the father of my kids started putting up some strange behavior, I never knew he was having an affair outside our home. it dawn on me on that faithful day when he came to the house to pick his things that was when I knew that situation has gotten out of hand and he then told me he was quitting the marriage which I have built for over five years, I was confused and dumbfounded I called on family and friends but to no avail. two months after I started having problem with my kids welfare rent-age and all of it, I really went through hell. until a day I was browsing on the internet and I happen to meet a spell caster I never believed on this but I needed my man back so I gave the spell caster my problem at first I never trusted him so I was just doing it but you know a problem shared is half solved after a 2 days my husband called me telling me that he his coming back home and that was all. now we are living happily.contact him on this email: Adodospelltemple@gmail.com or call his mobile number +2348107527833
michael
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Oct 21, 2014 @ 3:15 pm
who ever is reading this testimony today should please celebrate with me and my family because it all started like a joke to some people and others said it was impossible. my name is Michael i live in Chicago i am happily married with two kids and a lovely wife something terrible happen to my family along the line, i lost my job and my wife packed out of my house because i was unable to take care of her and my kids at that particular time. i manage all through five years, no wife to support me to take care of the children and there come a faithful day that i will never forget in my life i met an old friend who i explain all my difficulties to, and he took me to a spell caster and and the name of the temple is called, DR Okundonor, i was assure that everything will be fine and my wife will come back to me after the wonderful work of Dr Okundonorgreatspell, my wife came back to me and today i am one of the richest man in my country. i advice you if you have any problem email him with this email: dr.okundonorgreatspell@gmail.com and you will have the best result. take things for granted and it will be take from you. i wish you all the best.

Contact:( dr.okundonorgreatspell@gmail.com), or call he with this phone number, +2348137828640
edwin
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Oct 21, 2014 @ 3:15 pm
Hello to every one out here, am here to share the unexpected miracle that happened to me three days ago, My name is Edwin Wallace i live in United State,and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.(kemespelltemple@gmail.com }, So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {kemespelltemple@gmail.com },i f you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to Dr KUME for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.(kemespelltemple@gmail.com }, Thanks..
elizabeth rosas
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Oct 21, 2014 @ 3:15 pm
After being in relationship with emma for seven years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: drinegbedionspellhome@gmail.com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS:drinegbedionspellhome@gmail.com
maria
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Oct 21, 2014 @ 9:21 pm
my child i got your information i well understood you, i will help you but i just cast a spell on lady today and some of the items was reaming, how much did you to come up with now so that i can get the rest items that is reaming to cast the spell my child
your respond is neede

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